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The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck : A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

by Mark Manson (Author), Roger Wayne (Narrator), HarperAudio (Publisher)

Embracing Indifference

  1. True confidence and wealth: A confident man doesn’t need to prove himself, and a rich woman doesn’t need to convince others of her wealth.
  2. Paradox of desire: The desire for more positive experiences can be a negative experience, while accepting negative experiences can be positive.

Finding Meaning and Purpose

  1. Don’t seek happiness: You’ll never be happy if you constantly search for what happiness consists of.
  2. Don’t seek life’s meaning: You’ll never live if you’re always looking for the meaning of life.
  3. Give a f*ck about something: Not giving a f*ck about adversity means giving a f*ck about something more important.

Self-Awareness and Personal Growth

  1. Self-awareness is layered: Like an onion, self-awareness has multiple layers, and peeling them back can be emotional.
  2. Appreciate struggles: One day, you’ll look back on struggles as beautiful experiences.
  3. Take responsibility: With great power comes great responsibility.

Action and Motivation

  1. Do or don’t: There’s no “how” – just take action or don’t.
  2. Murphy’s Law: Whatever can go wrong will go wrong.
  3. Action causes motivation: Action isn’t just the effect of motivation; it’s also the cause.

Fear and Mortality

  1. Fear of death: The fear of death follows from the fear of life.
  2. Live fully: A person who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.